In life, people should have a correct comb of interpersonal relations, when people’s interpersonal relations change, it will lead to mental health, people can not integrate into life, become too isolated, proud, even jealous, fear of losing something to interpersonal communication barriers, we should pay attention to the treatment.
Symptoms of interpersonal disorder
When you interact with people, you can’t help feeling nervous or afraid.
There are two situations. One is self righteous, and no one is with people. The other is some kind of quirk which makes others unacceptable.
It is often unrealistic to overestimate oneself and to be so arrogant that it makes them feel embarrassed, nervous and embarrassed.
They are often dissatisfied with other people’s strengths, achievements, even cold-blooded and ironic in their behavior, and even take immoral actions.
Often sensitive to others’ words and deeds, suspicious and distrustful, easily lead to psychological barriers.
They often hate others, even hate others, and even act as aggressive behavior.
Why do we have interpersonal barriers?
1, inferiority complex
Because of the factors such as appearance, figure, cultivation, and so on, there is inferiority complex in dealing with others, dare not explain their own views, hesitate to do things, lack of courage, habitual echo, no own opinions. It is a waste of time to get along with people who are unable to provide valuable opinions and suggestions for others to use for reference in their communication.
2, jealousy psychology
Jealousy is human nature, especially in the process of dealing with people, and people often come and go the following situation, for the merits of others, achievements and so on is not praise but envy, looking forward to others than themselves and even suffer misfortune. Imagine that a jealous person will never act sincerely in interpersonal relationships and give warmth to others, and naturally will not be liked.